There
is a famous quote in the Peace Corps. It is a quote by JFK in
reference to the 1961 dropped postcard incident (you can read about
it here if you would like) which almost ended Peace Corps before we
even got on our feet.
“Keep
in touch... but not by postcard!”
The
understanding in Peace Corps is that there is letter talk and there
is postcard talk. Letters are closed off and are meant for the eyes
of the recipient.. but nothing can stop anyone from reading the back
of your postcard while it is in transit. Because of technology and
access to information it is more important than ever for Peace Corps
Volunteers who are viewed as Ambassadors in their country of service
to be careful what they say and where they say it. You never know who
will be checking up on you. Google translates everything. In place of
letters most volunteers send e-mails.. in place of postcards we have
blogs. Not only do we send out the postcard to friends and family
back home. We are openly offering for it to be read by anyone who so
chooses to do so.
On
a positive note this be careful what you say rule – makes me sound
like a very cheery person most of the time.
A few things have happened recently that reminded me why this is important:
Firstly, Someone I know in Benin Googled me on their smart phone. Yes, if
you have the money you can do that here too.. but it is very slow. I
mean, I know people have Googled me at home. Friends, prospective employers, strangers... For some reason, in Africa, you just feel a
little more separated and safe from being Googled. I guess not. I
know what happens when I Google myself.. so at least I know there is
nothing negative to come of it.
The
second thing, and more culturally shocking: At the office I had
someone start sounding out the notes I had written in English in my
notebook.. he was reading my notebook from the other side of the room
(literally). While I know to use sense when writing my blog posts..
for many reasons. I was kind of thrown back by the fact that I was
having my personal notes read by someone who wasn't even sitting near
me!! Of course it wasn't anything bad.. but it was good to know that
it was happening.
I
have also had people I know pick up personal letters on my table in
my living room.. and start sounding out the words. I understand that
they don't know what it says.. and that for them it is just a way for
practicing their English. To me it is a major breech of privacy.
Especially since they then expect me to provide them with a
translation. Just one of the many cultural differences I face here in
Benin. Privacy, private time, this is not yours it is mine -- these are not concepts here.
Mostly I am just rambling because I don't have anything nice to say this week --
It's all good -- I
survived!
Z
PS
-- I had said back in September I would revisit my TOP 10 things I
miss about Benin post when I finished my integration period. I
personally feel like that makes for a very boring blog post. However,
I made a link thingy on the right of the page. That is where those
updates will go from now on. It was kind of funny how some of the
things that left the Top 10 in September made it back for the January
review. If you want you can check that out here.
I loved this post---and I was personally reminded of it the other day when I was talking to someone and not realizing someone was in the other room. thank God I didn't gossip!!I still remember the day I was complaining about someone at the hairdressers and her Aunt was sitting right there and told me!!!!!!!What a lesson learned! I'm sure dad will keep you filled with his ice tea next time we see you!! Love Mom
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