All
through the night on New Years Eve there was drumming in the
villages... bands playing.. and gun shots as people rang in 2013.
That being said, the real fete was today not last night... and
besides the drumming happens on most nights whether it is a holiday
or not. So while everyone at home was partying it up everyone here was taking it easy and preparing for today's celebrations.
Here in Benin the BIG holiday is not the Eve of the New Year.. it is New Years Day!
The
only party that I was invited to was in Cotonou and I didn't want to
do all of that traveling on New Years day.. or be in a big city on
the holiday. I also didn't want to have to spend a night away from my
post. I wanted to experience New Years in a village. Unfortunately,
as I just said, I wasn't invited to any local parties :-/ SO I went
to the village of one of my close-mates and feted with her and her
concession family.
On
New Years day in Benin everyone cooks food, and shares it with their
neighbors. It is kind of like a neighborhood pot luck. I made a
curried lentil and cous cous dish, and the volunteer I was visiting
made a macaroni and cheese. We sat down with her concession family
and it was a really great cultural exchange... the local villagers
were not a fan of our American foods but they did their best to
pretend. When they served us their dishes it became apparent to us
that the family was discussing that we preferred our food to theirs
(something we had also been discussing about them). When we asked
them what we were laughing at.. they tried to play it off that they
were laughing about something else.. but they didn't cover it up very
well.
Normally
Beninese people think it is strange that we don't absolutely love
Beninese food. However, by eating our food first, I think that they
made a comparison -- realizing that they didn't like our food either,
and that it is really just a cultural difference. We shared some of
America with them, and they gained understanding of cultural
differences. (Now I am blogging about it to you in America and have
therefore hit 2 of my 3 PC goals – on a holiday!)
Over
all, the New Years Fete seems to be pretty laid back. Lots of people
sitting around, eating, and enjoying the company of family and
neighbors. Nothing like the crazy New Years parties we have at home.
***
In
2012 I started off the year working at Adventure Aquarium – with
all of the awesome people there. I was Invited to serve in the Peace
Corps. I moved to West Africa. I successfully completed Peace Corps
Pre-Service Training (thank goodness that's over) and my first In-Service
Training. I learned to speak french (and started learning Goun). AND
I met many many amazing people in Benin both fellow volunteers and
also host country nationals.
This
new year marks what is going to be my only full calendar year (can
you believe that) working here in Benin. Which means it is really
time for me to start getting things done! I am practically a quarter
way through my service.. and I really hope that by the time training
comes around in April I finally feel like I have something to show
for it.
As
I think and reflect it is truly crazy how many changes have happened
in this past year.. lots of successes.. almost as many failures. All
experiences the good and the bad were definitely learning experiences
– which makes me grateful for everything that has happened this
year – and excited to see what Benin is planning to bring me in
2013.
I
wish everyone a happy and successful New Year!
Kudo
Hwe,
Z
HAPPY NEW YEAR LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteone mans failure is another mans success. I think you have had a very successful year. You have done many of the things that you wanted to. Others have not done what you would like them to but that is on them. Keep on keeping on. All will come to you. Have faith, I do.
ReplyDeletelove you always
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